
Tips For In-House Counsel On Relationship-Building
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It is true that once you are in-house counsel for a company, you don’t have to develop business or find clients. But I don’t think it’s true that relationship-building ends. Arguably, it can be just as important to your effectiveness as a lawyer and to your career. It still boils down to trust — and whether your internal clients trust your judgment and advice. Here are a few tips for building relationships at your company.
Schedule One-On-Ones And Listen
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Be Helpful
The most obvious way to be helpful is to answer the legal question directly asked, as promptly as possible — which is a given — but my example about being helpful comes from my experience in both retail sales and as a waitress. People remember and like you more if you are able to provide individualized service, anticipate their needs and give them what they want or need before they even have to ask. So as a lawyer, a good response is “yes, you can do X.” But a better response is “yes, you can do X, and here are some ideas on how to make X happen.”
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Examples of how this can show up:
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- Providing out-of-town or visiting clients with a list of great restaurants near where they are staying
- Sharing employment law articles or courses with SHRM credit with your HR clients (bonus if free!)
- Taking the time to provide positive feedback to a manager on a specific job or well-executed project
Follow Ups And Check Ins
As with any relationship, following up and checking in from time to time is essential to building trust and maintaining the relationship, even if they are no longer the business unit you support. At a minimum, you need to deliver on what you are asked to do, but even better if you can follow up afterward to inquire on whether you can help with anything else or whether they had any questions, and if appropriate, for feedback on how you could better serve them. It’s also a great way to verify that your legal advice was followed, or if it wasn’t followed, you can better prepare for any potential risk, if necessary. Checking in is mostly informal though, showing up in small talk — where you show interest in a client by remembering that they enjoy horseback riding and asking if they have gone riding lately before jumping into the business at hand.
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In-House Counsel, Meyling "Mey" Ly Ortiz
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